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We hear parents say, "He ALWAYS gets up early. Winter and summer, he's up at 6 AM." The same parents who say this in despair have successfully changed their child's internal clock twice in the previous year. How do I know? Because twice a year, OUR clocks change - to and from standard time.
The Center Director tries to help the teacher handle a problem. After much staff input and discussion, she calls in the parent to dicsuss it, and respectfully points out specifics and suggests further evaluation.
The Center Director is like a professional juggler. Picture the center director - she (and most of them are women) is at the center of it all, is expected to know and do everything about and for everyone, smile all the time, and be helpful, but not too helpful, because that would be controlling.
When large scale disasters strike, everyone wants to turn on the tv to see what's going on. When there's a young child in the room, as soon as you can, TURN OFF THE TV.
Often the images and sounds of disaster are repeated every few minutes.
Why is speech the first step towards literacy? Because words come first! The best way you can help the baby go from random sounds to speech is to make the sounds back to the baby. The slowly learns that these sounds are a kind of communication. Then the baby begins to learn that certain sounds make the adults happier - like ma or da, and learns to repeat these sounds. Hooray! We are on the way to speech! The next time you feel foolish going ga-ga at a baby, remember, you are teaching a valuable lesson.
I do a lot of grant writing and I offer workshops on this topic. Recently, I was asked to review and revise a completed grant application that was at least 3 times larger than the maximum in the Request For Proposals (RFP).
The applicant had worked hard. Making the necessary compromises to keep their ideas and delete most of their words would have been much more time consuming and more emotionally difficult for the client than if they had met with me, given me information, and hired me to do the application.
Using any sort of tracing, ditto sheets to color in, or coloring books with young children is NOT developmentally appropriate.
Applied to coloring activities, it's nearly the same. If the child can color within lines, and we give her a picture drawn by someone else, the activity tells her she doesn't have the skills to draw a picture good enough to please the adults in her life. If she cannot color within the lines, the activity reinforces the idea that she can neither draw nor color. This is inconsistent with all of the concepts inherent in early childhood education.
I gave my own children blank spiral notebooks as coloring books. It was easy to take along with us, and they enjoyed keeping a record of their work. Sometimes, they would say, I made this on the way to Grandma's house, or in the doctor's office waiting for my checkup.
When children are ready to fill in spaces, they draw spaces and fill them in. It's a predictable stage of drawing development.
The idea that you have to spend years getting a young child ready for this stage is as silly as giving a newborn a steak to practice eating with because by next year she will have teeth.
Suggestion: Emphasize the sharing and multicultural nature of Thanksgiving, and the shared meal. Please think before you have the children make arts and crafts projects depicting live turkeys.
Some news needs to be shared IMMEDIATELY. How can you share center really important information fairly and speedily, so EVERY STAFF MEMBER is informed, and no one feels left out of the information "loop"? Some things happen when one shift has left or has not yet arrived at the center. If you are at the center, physically go to each room and write down the name of anyone who isn't present, even if they just left to use the ladies' room, and make sure you personally tell everyone on your list. Make sure that everyone who is not present gets a personal phone call. If you leave a message with a person, ask the name, and write it down. If you leave a machine message, write down the time you called and follow up the next day. If there is no answer and no machine, take the number home and keep calling until you get through, or at least 5 times. If you cannot get through that day, make sure to call first thing in the morning and say, "I tried you 5 times yesterday between 3 and 8. This is really important and I want you to know I tried hard to reach you. Is there another number for me to call the next time something important happens?"
To a young child, the scariest part of getting into a costume is putting something on or over the face. Masks, head coverings, and the like are responsible for most of the crying at costume time. Try painting the face with washable face paint - and please, don't take a long time making a masterpiece that will be quickly rubbed off.
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Forest Hills, NY - Winter, 2006
Topic: Children, Homework, and Your Sanity
Orlando, FL - Spring, 2005
Topic: Team Building/Overcoming Resistance to Change
New York, NY - Spring, 2005
Topic: Conflict Resolution Techniques
3 Full Days - one each month, March, April, and May, 2005 Seminar for Center Directors
Topic: Supervisory Strategies and Enhancing Communication with Staff
Providence, RI - September, 2005
Topic: Values and Early Childhood Education
Washington, DC - December, 2005
Topic: Being "Too Nice" Can be Harmful to Your Center - A workshop for Directors and administrators
In Print
January, 2005 - Lead Article
Topic: Time Management for Directors
Academic Year - 2002-2003
New York, NY - November, 2002
Topic: Teaching Values by Modeling the Behaviors We Want Children to Learn
Dallas, TX - December, 2002
Topic: Teaching Values to Young Chidlren
Nashville, TN - March, 2003
Topic: Survival Kit for New Directors
Saratoga Springs, NY - March, 2003
Topic: Working With "Difficult" Adults and/or Children Towards Positive Behavior Change
Anaheim, CA - November, 2001
Topic: Do Our Curriculum Activities Support or Undermine the Values We Want Young Chidlren to Learn?
"Strengthening Partnerships to Promote Quality and Accountablilty in Early Childhood Education"
New York State Education Department and the Office of New York City School and Community Services
New York City, January, 2002
Topic: Teaching Values By Daily Modeling and Responsible Curriculum Choices
St. Louis, MO, May, 2002
Topic: Successful Grant Writing
Buffalo, NY, May, 2002
Topic: Values and Early Childhood Education
Northwest Conference, East Hanover, NJ, May, 2002
Topic: Teaching Values by Daily Modeling and Responsible Curriculum Choices
Topic: Solving Classroom Management Problems by Re-Arranging the Classroom
Board of Jewish Education of Greater New York, Early Childhood Education Department
October and November, 2000 - two presentations each day
Topic: Teaching Values in the Early Childhood Curriculum
New York State Education Department Office of New York City School and Community Services
"Partnership for Early Childhood Education: Promoting Standards of Excellence"
New York City, January, 2001
Topic: Good Business Practices for Non-Profit Child Care Centers
New York State Association for the Education of Young Children Annual Conference
Syracuse, New York, May, 2001
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Challenge: Make 1 change this week!
During this waiting time, I've heard teachers say "please sit down", "we don't hit our friends", "we will go soon - when everyone's ready", "come on it's time to go", etc.
Not only is most of the wait time a waste of the children's time, it's a waste of the teacher's time and energy as well. The less time the children spend waiting, the less time the teachers have to play police person. If you want to start an activity, don't wait for every child to be ready. Just start. If it's interesting, the others will come over and be part of it in a very short time. The children will be DOING and the teaching staff will be interacting with the children in meaningful conversation, and the stress level will be GREATLY reduced all around.
Try it!
When children ask us questions about serious issues or play out serious issues, please take it seriously. Please also don't pry. They may fear the consequences of telling an adult. If the play happens once, it may be a result of something they heard on television. If you hear it again, please speak to a professional for guidance in helping the child without making the problem worse.
Teaching values should be part of every activity, every day. The choice of curriculum activities should be a careful process, and only those activities which promote positive values should be selected.
If you visit a program where the literature and the director speak of the value of each individual child and you walk into the building and see displays of "art" that look the same, you know they value the project over the child's learning process and self respect.
If the curriculum doesn't support the stated mission of the program, either change the curriculum or change your involvement with the program.
If we can change a child's internal clock in October and April, we can do it any time of the year. It takes about a week or so to get the change to work. A one day try NEVER works. The keys are:
1) Don't expect more than an hour's change at a time.
2) Wake the child at the same time each morning for about a week.
Soon the child will automatically wake up at or near the target time every day. Of course, if the child is sick, she will need extra rest. If you keep the child out late, she may wake up at the same time anyway, but be VERY cranky. Or, she may wake up fine and get cranky later.
PLEASE also remember to slightly adjust meal times for the first week of a clock change.
The parent goes to the pediatrician, who has seen the child for a few minutes at check up time and when the child is sick. Most of the time, the parent is told, "She (or he) will grow out of it."
When I helped to train pediatricians in child development, residents spent a few hours weekly for a month in a child care center, with real children who were neither severely disabled nor horribly sick.
Each of them reacted in the same words, "It was unbelievable." They were at the end of their residency, already treating patients, and had never been with typically developing children.
They didn't know the children could walk, talk, interact, throw, jump, like that - and these children ranged from mainstream children who were getting special early intervention services and therapies to the gifted.
Lately, several conversations have pointed to the same problem. All pediatricians have access to growth and development charts. Why do so few of them read them???
She is supposed to please board members, staff, parents, and children, do it NOW! and be a positive voice in the community, and most of the time, she pulls it all off! If you know a center director who deserves some praise - PLEASE - TELL HER TODAY! I'm sure she doesn't ever get enough positive feedback.
You can send us her name and email address, and we will send her a special email to let her know she is appreciated. You can tell us a little bit about her and the center she runs and if we get enough of them, we can list them in a special place on this website. Just click the feedback link and write to us! Of course, if your director is male, please tell us about him!
Even when the problems you are facing are not at the magnitude of tv coverage, please try not to talk about what is happening when young chidren are present.
CHILDREN HAVE EARS! Even when you think they are just talking to each other, their little antennae are up and working overtime. This is not only true now, but every time something major is happening in your family, your school, and in your immediate world.
In the days and weeks to come, we can be certain that rumors will spread. PLEASE, PLEASE watch what you say when you are in the same room as a young child!
When I was young, my mother tried hard not to talk about various family and world events in front of me. If someone should start the conversation, she would say, LITTLE PITCHERS HAVE BIG EARS.
Since my father and uncles were baseball fans, I never knew why my mother was suddenly talking about baseball players, but as soon as she said that, the conversation would change.
I was older when I found out she wasn't talking about baseball at all, but about the kind of pitchers you pour from. Then, I didn't understand why she was talking about ears on pitchers, since everyone knows you pour from a handle.
Well, how much difference is there between the shape of a pitcher handle and an ear after all????
The important part of the story is that the adults had a code for not talking about certain topics in the presence of children - and for the most part, it worked.
My number one suggestion in workshops and to clients is simple: READ the RFP carefully, and follow the rules set by the grantor. Stated simply, "Whoever has the money gets to make the rules. To get the money, play by the rules." This means that if they want 3 pages and you send them 23 pages, don't expect to get your funding. Similarly, if they want financial statements and you send them a letter from the bank saying you do great things for the community, you are also unlikely to get your funding. The number 1 reason for turning away grant applications is failure to follow the guidelines.
When I was in college, a professor told me the children should never use dittos and never trace someone else's 'art'. After I saw a project where the children traced things and seemed quite happy about it, I asked her about it. I have quoted Dr. Lucille Perryman for nearly 35 years:
If the child can make it, there's no purpose for tracing it. If the child can't make it, having to trace it reinforces the idea that she can't do it. Either way, there's no reason to give this activity to a child.
The only food we personify and then eat is the turkey. Would you ever think of saying, "We are eating hamburgers for lunch today. Hamburgers are made from beef. Let's moo, and sing songs about cows and steers and about how they want to run away before the farmer gets them, and we can make pictures of them, and then eat."
I suggest that to a young child, who is used to animals talking in stories, showing the turkey as the focus of thanksgiving sends the wrong message.
All of the projects we have done for our clients are tailored directly to the client's needs. Just as no two children are exactly alike, neither are our clients copies of each other. While we have created outlines for workshops to several groups,
each presentation is tailored specifically to the client.
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